Does Height Really Matters In A Relationship?

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 Okay! Moving on to the title of our topic today, does height really matters in a relationship? i know that if we look at it in the manner of religious perspectives (specifically Islam), NOPE... height is SO not in the checklist of the criteria that are needed when we want to choose our husband/wife. But what i am trying to say here would be in the sense of generally what does the society perceive and what opinions do they have regarding this matter. Obviously, there had to be any events that had occurred, for me to suddenly brought up this matter and that would be the argument (more like childish teasing ^^) between me and a male friend of mine. Although this is embarrassing but hey, im proud to be 148 cm (confidence IS fashion!). His height would be around 176 cm and he asked me as in why do girls get mad when a guy preferred skinny girl rather a fat one when we (girls) actually purposely choose and discriminate guys depending on their heights. According to him, being a skinny or a fat girl it is something that can definitely be change but how in the world can a guy change his height? okay, here's the thing, although he had got some point there, but form my point of view, it is a given that a guy SHOULD be taller than the girl even if that means 1 cm taller. (so what? he's still taller than ME). In the world of feminism( based on the articles that i read online), when a guy is taller than his partner,the partner will eventually consciously or unconsciously felt more secured and the guy will definitely seems more reliable. see? okay, so i sorta asked him, whether it is okay for his partner to be taller than him? he said no, because he would sees that as being intimidating and threatening his pride and ego..so yeah, the same thing goes with us girls and the only difference is that we are honest about it!

Sorry for writing something that is way way way out of our normal and usual topic, but all in all, here's the gist of this topic, in my opinion, although i would definitely prefer a taller guy but if it had been destined that my partner would be shorter or the same height as me, who am i to argue especially if he's perfect in every other aspect. it's not a really vital and crucial matter but i simply wanted those guys out there, reading this, to be fully aware and have a clear view regarding our real reason. so...no discriminating whatsoever. my closing would be, height doesnt really matter the most but it is simply the reason of the marriage itself (even if the guy is shorter than me more than 10 cm, if he is the one that could and want to take me and my family to jannah, i would say, YES!)

Assalam,
Farwizah Faizy