Things happen for a reason

Assalamualaikum wbt and Hi!

It has been quite a long period of time since the last time i wrote here. 

This year, I experienced so many different things and emotions. I learned to accept things as it is, no matter how bitter it was. And, always keep in mind that accepting is one thing, but we need to learn to accept it with expressions when we receive good news. Call me pretentious or whatever, but that's life. I am not saying that crying is forbidden but hey, don't lie to yourself, as we grow older, there are less people that are worth showing our tears to. 

Sometimes, you just need to take a deep breath and be strong. Believe that Allah SWT knows what's best for us and HE will surely replace all of the things that we had lost. 

@cyberwarrior

Does Height Really Matters In A Relationship?

Assalam and Hi everyone~~~ (tiba2 je nak speaking dlm post kali ni).

I wish and pray that everyone who are currently reading this and will be reading this will be in their absolute perfect health be it in terms of physical or spiritual and even if there are any of you who are not quite well, it's okay, try and perceive it as a way of Allah SWT remembers us and wants us to be near HIM.

 Okay! Moving on to the title of our topic today, does height really matters in a relationship? i know that if we look at it in the manner of religious perspectives (specifically Islam), NOPE... height is SO not in the checklist of the criteria that are needed when we want to choose our husband/wife. But what i am trying to say here would be in the sense of generally what does the society perceive and what opinions do they have regarding this matter. Obviously, there had to be any events that had occurred, for me to suddenly brought up this matter and that would be the argument (more like childish teasing ^^) between me and a male friend of mine. Although this is embarrassing but hey, im proud to be 148 cm (confidence IS fashion!). His height would be around 176 cm and he asked me as in why do girls get mad when a guy preferred skinny girl rather a fat one when we (girls) actually purposely choose and discriminate guys depending on their heights. According to him, being a skinny or a fat girl it is something that can definitely be change but how in the world can a guy change his height? okay, here's the thing, although he had got some point there, but form my point of view, it is a given that a guy SHOULD be taller than the girl even if that means 1 cm taller. (so what? he's still taller than ME). In the world of feminism( based on the articles that i read online), when a guy is taller than his partner,the partner will eventually consciously or unconsciously felt more secured and the guy will definitely seems more reliable. see? okay, so i sorta asked him, whether it is okay for his partner to be taller than him? he said no, because he would sees that as being intimidating and threatening his pride and ego..so yeah, the same thing goes with us girls and the only difference is that we are honest about it!

Sorry for writing something that is way way way out of our normal and usual topic, but all in all, here's the gist of this topic, in my opinion, although i would definitely prefer a taller guy but if it had been destined that my partner would be shorter or the same height as me, who am i to argue especially if he's perfect in every other aspect. it's not a really vital and crucial matter but i simply wanted those guys out there, reading this, to be fully aware and have a clear view regarding our real reason. so...no discriminating whatsoever. my closing would be, height doesnt really matter the most but it is simply the reason of the marriage itself (even if the guy is shorter than me more than 10 cm, if he is the one that could and want to take me and my family to jannah, i would say, YES!)

Assalam,
Farwizah Faizy

Memang benar orang yang DITEGUR atas suatu kesilapan atau ketidaksempurnaan atau kekurangan itu SEDANG DIUJI hatinya untuk menghadam teguran & nasihat itu tidak kira ia benar atau salah. Dia juga diuji bagi mengenepikan rasa terhina dan termalu atas kelemahan diri hingga teringin mencari alasan dan hujah balas.

Hati ni

Assalam, harini result exam for repeaters AS kami pelajar A-Level ni dah keluar..berdebar2 rasa hati ni masa tunggu waktu nak check result, bila dah check tu tiba2 hati rasa macam disentap2 n terus megalir lajuu je airmata...rasa sedih and kecewa dengan result nya, memanglah menigkat daripada exam yg before ni..but still, rasa hati tu tak dapat nk disembunyikan...maka jadilah episod menangis ramai2 dgn kakak, roommate and besties..terus capai phone and call abah and ibu, dengar aje suara diorang terus nangis..pendek kata...kerjanya asyik menangissss je lah selama 45 minit tu..tengah tersedu2 tu, tiba abah cakap, tak apa...ucapkan syukur..Allah SWT dah berikan kita peningkatan dalam result and DIA dah tunjukkan and siap bagi hint lagi yang mengatakan we are on the right track...kitakena lipat gandakan usaha lagi and mungkin Allah SWT dah simoan result yang hebat2 and gempak tu untuk final exam nanti..jadi buat masa sekarag ni DIA simpan aje dulu..pokok pangkalnya, sentiasalah bersangka baik dengan Allah SWT.. DIA kan sayang setiap hamba2nya ni..jadi mestilah DIA dah susun yang baik2 and yang cantik2 je perancangan-Nya demi kita.

p/s: pandanglah takdir kita ni dengan pandangan akhirat, insyaAllah, hati akan tenang dan damai utk terima takdir ni

Rasullulah s.a.w bersabda: Sekiranya kepala salah seorang daripada kamu ditusuk dengan jarum besi, itu adalah lebih baik bagi kamu daripada kamu menyentuh wanita yang tidak halal bagi kamu.  (H.R Thabrani)

as salam...
hmm..tak fahamlah..bila kita diam org akan kata kita ni introvert lah..passivelah..tak bersosial lah..sedangkan bukankah diam itu lebih baik drpd banyak cakap tp banyak bercakap perkara yang sia2 dan tidak bermanfaat..kadang2 kita tak sedar pun yang bila kita banyak sgt ckp, possibility utk org terasa or kecil hati dgn kita makin tinggi because bila kita byk sgt bercakap, we tend to forget what we said..and bila kita sedar perkara ni, sebenarnya itu ialah didikan Allah SWT untuk kita diam..
DIAM tu perisai kebodohan dan DIAM itu juga boleh menjadi penghias kebijaksanaan.. sedar tak sedar sebenarnya dgn DIAM tu kita boleh meraih pahala and menghindari dosa..tapi janganlah diam aje bila kebenaran secara terang-terangan dipalsukan..masa tu berhujahlah menegakkan kebenaran..
fikir-fikirkanlah ya..as salam